New every morning is your love, great God of light, and all day long you are working for good in the world. Stir up in us desire to serve you, to live peacefully with our neighbors and all your creation, and to devote each day to your Son, our Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.

"A Liturgy for Morning Prayer," Upper Room Worshipbook

Used by permission from the Book of Common Worship, © 2018 Westminster John Knox Press. All rights reserved. This prayer appears in “A Liturgy for Morning Prayer” in Upper Room Worshipbook.


Today’s Reflection

For most of my life, I had been the caregiver offering help and support, especially to people with dementia and their caregivers. Now … I am the one who needs care and support. I have learned to embrace my growing identity as a receiver. I have learned that receiving help graciously is a sacred practice. Instead of complaining about my loss of control, I am able to express gratitude to everyone who reaches out to help me.

—Richard L. Morgan, Light of Setting Suns: Reflecting on Realities and Mysteries at Ninety Years of Life (Upper Room Books, 2020)

Today’s Question

When have you had to accept help from others, and what attitude did you have toward being helped? Join the conversation.

Today’s Scripture

“When you are old, you will stretch out your
hands, and others will dress you and take you
where you don’t want to go.”
—John 21:18 (NLT)

Prayer for the Week

Lord of love, grant me courage to accept my trials, learn to
endure them with patience, and realize that such courage
and faith create character. Amen.
Prayer by Richard L. Morgan
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Something More

What does it mean to live a contemplative life? In Everyday Contemplative, Roger Owens challenges readers to expand their definition of contemplative living to encompass all ways of seeking to be more open, available, and responsive to God. Learn more here.

Lectionary Readings

(Courtesy of Vanderbilt Divinity Library)

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  • robert moeller Posted November 13, 2022 6:32 am

    There are times all through life when I’ve needed help. Early in life I had it right after being born before I even knew I needed it. Then all through life there have been more situations where I needed help. I’ve tried to return the favor to others, I’m still doing it. It is what we are called by God to do. Watching others live their lives I’m aware that at some point I may be totally dependent on caregivers at the end of my life and quite possibly unable to thank them. I hope it doesn’t end that way, but the future is unknown.
    On a brighter note Advent calendars will go off to my granddaughters on Monday. Picked them up at the German food store yesterday. Will see them in December. Have my train ticket. Hope Covid, the flu, and RSV don’t put a stop on the visit.
    Church today, soon decorating for Advent, Christmas. and Epiphany.
    Blessings to all.

  • Ally Posted November 13, 2022 11:25 am

    I often need help and it can be hard for me to ask for help. If someone offers help, as our church has on several occasions, I try to accept graciously. I’m truly thankful to those who have offered help to us. We hope to pay it forward when we can.

  • Jill Posted November 13, 2022 5:56 pm

    During mom’s final two months, there were a handful of people who kept my dad fed well – dropping by food enough for multiple meals. They knew what he liked and catered to his preferences. Also, I had a few colleagues who did simple things for me, which were huge helps. One, in particular, would meet me in the treasure office and help me count up money. It made a significant difference to me – the amount of time saved.
    Well, tennis today did not end as hoped. I lost (again) on my court and it cost us the playoffs. All three of my team’s losses this year – I have lost on my court in the final tiebreaker. Might be losing my mojo a bit.
    An easy start to the week, and then things pick up. I have my first physical therapy appointment Wednesday after school. Then our small group is having a dinner and our study – the last one until January. I pick Dad, Don and Becky up from the airport Thursday.

  • robert moeller Posted November 14, 2022 1:48 am

    I’m glad to learn of the help offered and accepted by Ally&David and Jill and the difference it made. Competitive tennis requires agility, strength, endurance, and accuracy . We’ve watched a great tennis player with many grand slam wins have to move away from competition. I’m sure that is tough when you have the competitive spirit in you. Thankfully, Jill, you still have golf and following your Dad’s example can play for many years to come. There’s competition there too. Hope physical therapy goes well. Your family will be back for the holidays, that’s a blessing.

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