Just as pain and suffering require mystery, so does love. Love, in its simplicity and complexity, somehow covers a multitude of sins—ours and everyone else’s. Love allows us the courage to see that we ourselves are a both/and, a beautiful, chaotic mix of goodness and capacity to wound another. Love allows us the courage to know that others are a both/and as well. We will be hurt, wounded—and forgiveness is possible. Healing can happen, and sometimes, thankfully, relationships are restored. Love allows us to move toward another and hold boundaries when necessary.
—Beth Taulman Miller, What Loss Can Teach Us: A Sacred Pathway to Growth and Healing (Upper Room Books, 2021)
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I’m convinced that nothing can separate us from God’s love in Christ Jesus our Lord: not death or life, not angels or rulers, not present things or future things, not powers or height or depth, or any other thing that is created.
—Romans 8:38-39 (CEB)
Prayer for the Week
New every morning is your love, great God of light, and all day long you are working for good in the world. Stir up in us desire to serve you, to live peacefully with our neighbors and all your creation, and to devote each day to your Son, our Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
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