Today’s Reflection
As we develop plans to better care for victims and survivors of domestic violence, we can turn to experts for guidance. We can educate ourselves about intimate partner violence and ask our pastors to address the subject from the pulpit and in other church communications. We can identify safe places, service providers, and other relevant resources in our local communities. However, real change requires introspection. If our congregations want to support people who are experiencing domestic violence, I believe we need to take some time to explore our theological convictions and how they shape the way we respond to victims and survivors of abuse.
—Elizabeth Hagan, Brave Church: Tackling Tough Topics Together (Upper Room Books, 2021)
Today’s Question
How does your faith community respond to victims and survivors of abuse? Join the conversation.
Today’s Scripture
Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
when it is in your power to do it.
—Proverbs 3:27 (NRSV)
Prayer for the Week
Lord, grant me the patience and grace to listen, the courage and wisdom to question and speak; and the bravery to create safe space for tough topics.
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Something More
Churches are not immune to violence, as we have seen from shootings at houses of worship across the nation. The challenge for faith communities is how to prepare for and respond to potential violence. In Whom Shall I Fear? Urgent Questions for Christians in an Age of Violence, author Rosalind Hughes asks congregational leaders to examine whether their operational and security policies are consistent with gospel values. Learn more here.
Lectionary Readings
(Courtesy of Vanderbilt Divinity Library)
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2 Comments
So far as I know, the silence is overwhelming.
I agree with Gail. As a survivor of domestic abuse, I can personally attest that there is no thought given to this in the church. In fact, I feel as if the constant emphasis on forgiveness is an indictment. I find it impossible to forgive my abuser as he disavows and continues the abuse.
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