Today’s Reflection
When intimacy is rooted in solitude, you can become persons to each other — persons in the sense of [the Latin] per-sonare, which means sounding through. Then intimacy allows us to sound through a truth wider than we can grasp, a peace deeper than we can fathom, a love greater than we can contain.
—Henri J.M. Nouwen, “The Gift of Solitude,” in The Wondrous Mystery: An Upper Room Advent Reader, compiled by Benjamin Howard (Upper Room Books, 2019)
Today’s Question
How often do you allow yourself to seek solitude? What gifts can solitude offer you?
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Today’s Scripture
Whenever you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
—Matthew 6:6 (NRSVUE)
Prayer for the Week
God, thank you for what is just around the corner. In a season filled with the longest, darkest nights, I await the coming of the most beautiful light. Amen. [prayer adapted from Benjamin Howard’s introduction to The Wondrous Mystery]
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Lectionary Readings
- 1 Samuel 2:18-20, 26
- Psalm 148
- Colossians 3:12-17
- Luke 2:41-52
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3 Comments
I am fortunate to be able to enjoy solitude, have it mostly as desired, and bask in it. A natural introvert, silence and solitude is my comfort zone.
Having said that – yesterday was a very enjoyable day. Time with Becky, Dad and Don before we gathered with the extended family. Becky and I took a walk on a windless, sunless day. And, of course, cards. Time with the bigger family was good. Lots of food, games. Less presents (a good thing) and a big family photo.
Tennis this morning with three of my favorite people, including my friend who also had surgery last year. This is the first time we will be on a court together. It took too long to happen, but will enjoy it today
Early morning and late evening are my times of solitude, and I look forward to them as they calm me and prepare me for what is ahead. Planned or unplanned, I know that God is with me and will help me. At the end of the day I journal and reflect, often with a sentence of gratitude. By having time with God I am able to try to do the work of Christmas as identified in this poem that our pastor says at the end of the Christmas Eve service:
When the song of the angels is stilled,
When the Star in the sky is gone,
When the kings and princes are home,
When the shepherds are back with their flock,
The work of Christmas begins.
To find the lost,
To heal the broken,
To feed the hungry,
To release the prisoner,
To rebuild the nations,
To bring peace among brothers,
To make music from the heart.
Christmas Blessings dear NEM family.
Solitude is abundant here for me in NH. I’m very familiar with it having grown up in northern Vermont. Yes, before the day starts and as the day ends, it is always there. Wonderful posts from Jill and April. Thank you. Blessings to you and your families. Had a very special Christmas day meal yesterday. An entirely new menu very well prepared. Time for today’s activities. Thank You, Lord
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