Today’s Reflection
Today I dropped a glass on the kitchen floor. It shattered into countless tiny shards that skittered across the tile. I stood there in my pajamas, barefoot, staring at the mess I’d made. In the past, you would have come running from another room at the crashing sound. You would have consoled me and reminded me to put on my shoes. Before I could have asked for help, you would have grabbed a broom, and I would have retrieved the dustpan. Together, we would have swept up the sharp pieces of broken glass. On the day you died, my life shattered into countless shards, but now you are not here to help me sweep up the brokenness.
—Missy Buchanan, Feeling Your Way Through Grief: A Companion for Life After Loss (Upper Room Books, 2024)
Today’s Question
When have you felt shattered by the loss of a loved one? Join the conversation.
Today’s Scripture
[Job said,] “I have no peace, no quietness; I have no rest, but only turmoil.”
—Job 3:26 (NIV)
Prayer for the Week
O God, let me feel your presence in the darkness of my grief. Be with me in the silence; be with me when I weep; be with me as I find a way forward. Amen.
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Something More
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Lectionary Readings
- 2 Samuel 11:26-12:13a
- Psalm 51:1-12
- Ephesians 4:1-16
- John 6:24-35
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3 Comments
On November 17th 1997 I found my wife passed away on a family room couch. it was a big surprise for me and her doctors. When the autopsy report finally came almost a year later, I learned her heart, which tests showed was fine, actually was scared and that caused it to stop. No medical procedure could have prevented her passing..
Looking back, healing from my grief began that very day, more grief than healing at first, over the next two years and with help from counseling and through faith growth I recovered. I went through more ups and downs trying to move on. Now its just me and my two children. Thankful that God has helped me through.
My loss of a loved one was not through death but due to divorce and the shattering of my marriage/ family/ life as I knew it. I’m still picking up the pieces 6 years later- hard to believe it has been that long. I pray for all experiencing grief and loss of any kind – God bless you all.
I haven’t really experienced the loss of someone I loved deeply. My parents have died and mostly I felt relieved. However, my husband and I have been lovers for 56 years and I wonder how either one of us will do without the other. The author’s image of the breaking glass hits me very poignantly.
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