Today’s Reflection
Although most persons may be open to forgive if the other person expresses genuine sorrow, the Christian disposition is much deeper. Forgiveness is to be extended even to those who do not ask for it, do not believe that they need it, and would likely scorn it even if offered. Such forgiveness is the outward manifestation of love.
—W. Paul Jones, Becoming Who God Wants You to Be (Upper Room Books, 2013)
Today’s Question
Remember a time when you sought forgiveness from someone. How did it make you feel? [questions from Becoming Who God Wants You to Be by W. Paul Jones]
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Today’s Scripture
Peter came and said to [Jesus], “Lord, if my brother or sister sins against me, how often should I forgive? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy-seven times.
—Matthew 18:21-22 (NRSVUE)
Prayer for the Week
In my brokenness, O God, you gather me in your infinite love. Guide me to serve others without reservation and in ways that reflect your grace. Amen.
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Lectionary Readings
- Isaiah 62:1-5
- Psalm 36:5-10
- 1 Corinthians 12:1-11
- John 2:1-11
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A lot of who I am = grin and bear it. I have asked for forgiveness for wrongs I have done. At best it has been only partially accepted. Dealing with someone who has some mental health issues adds a different slant to this. I’m very thankful for the ability to be patient and keep goping. Thank You, Lord.
I was always the one who had to apologize when things went sideways with mom. It was brutal. I did it with gritted teeth, with no intention of accepting the blame or seeking forgiveness…but simply to alleviate the “silence” which ensued. My heart was hard, I feel like I dug my feet in more. It wasn’t until possibly our very last issue that I began to realize the extent of her emotional issues and this was just her MO. I learned to keep the peace, accepting her emotional capacity, walked even more carefully on eggshells and I learned to change – thanks be to God.
From this experience I have tried very hard to have realistic or no expectations of others, recognizing that each of us are individuals with our own stuff. I try to be mindful of how I was made to feel and try not to do that to others. When I become frustrated with others – I am quicker to ask God to show me what frustrates Him about me. I quickly name what frustrates me with other individuals – I am sure His list is even longer regarding me.
The sun has broken out this afternoon and it is wonderful. Still cold and windy – but warm in the car on the way home. My family made it safely to their place down South – and are trying to get things up and running down there…groceries, internet, etc. Dad is in his happy place.
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