Today’s Reflection
Boundaries help us discern where we end and another person begins so that we do not become fused with others in unhealthy ways. As is often the case, spiritual maturity requires holding two truths at once: We can bear one another’s burdens and carry our own load. While we are an interdependent body of believers, we each hold an individual identity like an ear or an eye, a hand or a foot. We are responsible for what falls within our boundaries: thoughts, feelings, urges, desires, and preferences. It’s not in our best interest to expect others to take responsibility for those aspects of our experiences. Neither is it in our best interest to take responsibility for those areas of other adults’ lives.
—Angela D. Schaffner, Gather Us In: Leading Transformational Small Groups (Upper Room Books, 2020)
Today’s Question
What personal relationships came to mind as you read today’s reflection? Join the conversation.
Today’s Scripture
Bear one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. . . . For all must carry their own loads.
—Galatians 6:2, 5 (NRSVUE)
Prayer for the Week
God, we praise you for gathering us like a mother hen gathers her chicks under her wings. Amen.
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Lectionary Readings
- Amos 7:7-17
- Psalm 82
- Colossians 1:1-14
- Luke 10:25-37
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2 Comments
This is an issue I struggle with in that I am very unwilling to share any parts of myself with others. Meanwhile, I have a tendency to want to ease all the struggles of those I care about. I have worked on this issue from both angles and it is a constant struggle for which I need God’s counsel.
There’s only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self.
Aldous Huxley
Family, church friends, friends and people I meet. I fowarded today’s reflection to my church as well.
Thank You, Lord for todays breakfast worship and all who came.
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