Today’s Reflection
At the most basic level, “bearing substitution” can be as simple as talking about our troubles. But our culture of ruthless individuality works against even this shy beginning, encouraging us to be self-sufficient, tough it out, go it alone, suffer in silence. It can feel like a radical act to break from the perky party line and admit, even to family members or close friends, when we are unhappy, worried, distressed, or scared. Yet such honesty can truly lighten the burden of these difficult feelings by giving us company in them.
—Elizabeth Green, “The Practice of Substituted Love,” in Compassion: Thoughts on Cultivating a Good Heart, compiled by Amy Lyles Wilson (Fresh Air Books, 2008)
Today’s Question
Who could you courageously turn to for compassionate support? Join the conversation.
Today’s Scripture
Bear one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
—Galatians 6:2 (NRSVUE)
Prayer for the Week
God: With my eyes, I choose to see with compassion. With my hands, I choose to give and touch with compassion. With my feet, I choose to go where I can deliver compassion. With my heart, I choose to love with compassion. (Pause for a minute of silence, and imagine how you can show compassion today.) Amen.
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To answer the question: son and daughter. This is a very good reflection, feels very focused on me.
“our culture of ruthless individuality works against even this shy beginning, encouraging us to be self-sufficient, tough it out, go it alone, suffer in silence. It can feel like a radical act to break from the perky party line and admit, even to family members or close friends, when we are unhappy, worried, distressed, or scared. ” Yes indeed. I have to say that the situation is improving, but still a somewhat rocky road. Very thankful the there is someomne who knows me better than anyone, God. Jesus, and the Holy Spirit – God in three persons, blessed Trinity.
I am grateful for a few who will “go there” with me…into the wilderness of my soul and be there with me, holding my hand. God has graciously placed these people in my life. Especially one is compassionate, able to sit with me and not have the need to attempt to fix or solve, but just be.
Spent yesterday at my youngest nephew’s place, with dad, Becky, Don and my nephew’s wife. Weather was damp, so we ate indoors and watched tennis. It was nice, just the six of us. Not too loud, just simple. We all enjoy watching tennis. Was able to play tennis in the morning, before the rain set in. Trying again this morning.
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