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New every morning is your love, great God of light, and all day long you are working for good in the world. Stir up in us desire to serve you, to live peacefully with our neighbors and all your creation, and to devote each day to your Son, our Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.

"A Liturgy for Morning Prayer," Upper Room Worshipbook

Used by permission from the Book of Common Worship, © 2018 Westminster John Knox Press. All rights reserved. This prayer appears in “A Liturgy for Morning Prayer” in Upper Room Worshipbook.

 

Today’s Reflection

I am grateful for those who are aware of your death anniversary. Most people are busy with their own lives and have long forgotten the heartbreaking significance of this day to me. Life continues to be a push-pull of contradicting emotions. One thing I know for certain: Grief is not a matter of getting past all the obstacles of the first year. It’s learning to embrace life each day knowing that joy and grief will always be intertwined. Some people say the second year is even more difficult than the first because the initial shock of loss and death is waning. Tomorrow I will still feel pangs of grief throughout the day, but I will keep moving forward.

—Missy Buchanan, Feeling Your Way Through Grief: A Companion for Life After Loss (Upper Room Books, 2024)

Today’s Question

How can you make the most of the rest of the days of your life?  [question from Feeling Your Way Through Grief by Missy Buchanan] Join the conversation.

Today’s Scripture

[Jesus said,] “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”
—Matthew 5:4 (NRSVUE)

Prayer for the Week

O God, let me feel your presence in the darkness of my grief. Be with me in the silence; be with me when I weep; be with me as I find a way forward. Amen.
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Something More

“It was a blessing to personally witness the love between Missy and her beloved husband Barry,” reflects Good Morning America co-anchor Robin Roberts. “The bond they experienced is apparent in Missy’s latest book and is a safe place for readers to explore their deepest emotions.” Receive 20% off and free shipping on this week’s featured book, Feeling Your Way Through Grief, when you order your copy today.

Lectionary Readings

  • 2 Samuel 11:26-12:13a
  • Psalm 51:1-12
  • Ephesians 4:1-16
  • John 6:24-35

Read the lectionary texts courtesy of Vanderbilt Divinity Library here.

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5 Comments

  • robert moeller Posted August 4, 2024 5:15 am

    How can you make the most of the rest of the days of your life after the passing of your spouse? I wish I knew the answer. Four efforts to find a new partner have failed, I will not try again. I live to support, help my son, daughter, and granddaughters. Church, hobbies. and interests keep me going. I’m very thankful for all of these. Thank You, Lord.

  • robert moeller Posted August 4, 2024 5:34 am

    This week’s tough topic, often recognized as one of the toughest experiences we can face in life, sent me seaching back through the responses of this week. On some days there was only one response, on others as many as four. In many cases I sense that words can not express feelings. That is a truth. I’m thankful that there are feelings. They are what count. Thank You, Lord.

  • Lou Posted August 4, 2024 9:01 am

    I think I can make the most of my days by helping others -it helps to get outside of myself. My work as a psychologist helps me do that and I don’t think I will ever retire – I love my work. I love helping people – I think I am good at what I do and I praise God for this purpose in my life and also for my children – I keep going for them- they are my joy. I’m thankful to God every day for them. They are amazing loving wonderful people- thank you God for my blessings. Prayers for all who come here today.

  • Jill Posted August 4, 2024 9:11 am

    Living with intentionality is essential for me. That those nearest and dearest to me know the significance they play in my life. I think seeing where this end of life doula thing leads – this will be very fulfilling to me in that I will be glorifying my Father and assisting those who tend to feel quite alone during the time frame.
    A day supporting many of my teammates at tennis playoffs yesterday – seeing their joy, their competitive nature, enjoying a meal with them. Grateful for these relationships over the last two years.
    Tomorrow I have an ultrasound to see how the inflammation has returned, is situated and where to go from here. Sitting remains uncomfortable…the plane rides were quite trying. I have follow up appointments with my surgeon and rheumatologist later in the week to go over the results and see what’s next.
    Vicki – condolences on your loss. I am grateful that you have sensed His presence with you these last four weeks. Lou – may you continue to help others in your role.

  • Ally Posted August 4, 2024 3:23 pm

    When David was on a ventilator, I tried to prepare myself for him not being here. Then I realized that even when you try to prepare, you are never really ready. My daddy will have been gone 29 years September 24. We knew that his time was probably short, as he suffered complications of diabetes and was on dialysis. Still we prayed for a little more time with him. The gut-searing grief that we went through and the pain of seeing his twin, our beloved uncle, was just as gut searing. Twins have a special relationship. Daddy and uncle Howard talked in their own language as children, according to my grandmother. Until Daddy died, each knew what the other was thinking. In our grief, I gave thanks to God for their bond. It helped ease my own grief: the beauty of it. I miss Daddy every day. With mama, it was a different grief, as her dementia had taken her from us in pieces. It was a long goodbye. When the grieving process starts well before your loved one leaves, you may be in a different stage of the process. I grieved for the person she was before dementia. Both mama’s sisters have been gone a long time, so mama was very close to her 3 sisters in-law. Sometimes I call them to talk about mama because they remind me of who she was inside. I have made peace with the way dementia changed her before we knew she had dementia. With grief, you don’t really get over the loss. You can learn to live with it and take comfort in your memories and what your loved one taught you. That is moving forward.

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